Frequently Asked Questions

I live a full and busy life which doesn’t leave me available for same-day bookings. The shortest notice I can accommodate is two days. The furthest I plan ahead is about four months, so if you’re visiting from out of town or hoping to arrange a travel date, it’s best to reach out early before my calendar fills.

My schedule is kept busy, so I plan all of my dates in advance! The shortest notice that could work for me is two days.

I schedule trysts between 10am and 10pm, with my preference being daylight hours.

I no longer tour, but am available to come to your city via Fly-Me-To-You, Train-Me-To-You, or Drive-Me-To-You. Unsure which category you’d fall into? Check out my Travel Directory and see what’s closest to you.

Like the pop-ups always say, I never share or sell your personal information. I personally review every booking form, so I’m the only one who ever sees your details. Your information is used solely for verification and remains strictly confidential.

Absolutely. Discretion is a cornerstone of what I do. Your details are handled personally by me and are never shared with anyone else. I value privacy as much as you do and treat your information with the same care I’d expect for myself.

Nope! I’ll take a moment to be blunt: I’m just not in a position where I would need to ever consider this. I keep high standards for the conduct of the gentlemen I see, and the very beginning of that is when you meet my screening requirements. If you can’t follow my rules in advance, why would I believe you would respect my boundaries in person? 

Once your screening is complete and we’ve chosen a date, I’ll send deposit options via email. I offer a few discreet electronic methods, and I’ll always recommend whichever is easiest and most secure for you. I require a 25% deposit in advance of all local bookings, with travel deposits determined on a situational basis.

I do not accept prepaid appointments. To reserve our time together, I require a 25% deposit in advance, with the remainder provided in cash on the day of our date.

I accept cash for the remaining balance at the start of our date. Deposits can be sent electronically through the discreet options I provide after screening, and I’m also happy to accept cryptocurrency when arranged in advance. When paying in cash, just leave the envelope somewhere visible before I arrive—or, if you’re visiting my incall, set it out when you come in.

I’m based in northern New Jersey but happily travel throughout the region — including Manhattan, Westchester, and nearby cities. For longer engagements, I also offer Fly-Me-to-You, Train-Me-to-You, or Drive-Me-to-You experiences anywhere within the US.

No, I do not visit private homes or apartments. For everyone’s safety and comfort, I meet exclusively at reputable hotels.

Choose a clean, comfortable, and reputable hotel in a safe area — it doesn’t need to be five stars! I often recommend 3- to 4-star properties that are well-kept and convenient. If you’re unsure, I’m happy to suggest a few options. I keep a curated list of my favorite hotels, typically the ones with enormous soaking tubs big enough for the two of us! If you find one of those, I’ll be absolutely enchanted to meet you.

I don’t maintain a permanent incall space, but I can arrange one as needed. There is an additional $300 fee for incalls.

Yes — incalls require a $300 room fee to cover the cost of booking the space. .

I handle all communication via email. Once you’re screened, I’ll be happy to provide more details on what will happen leading up to our time together.

Of course! I love dressing for the occasion and am happy to take outfit requests. If you’d like me to wear something specific, you’re welcome to gift it in advance — I’ll make sure it’s ready for our time together. Thoughtful surprises are always appreciated when given respectfully.

Because I’m a very light sleeper, I do best when I have my own space to rest. Separate sleeping arrangements ensure we both get a good night’s sleep and wake up refreshed for a cozy morning together.

I don’t offer late-night or very early morning dates. My preferred hours are between 10 a.m. and 10 p.m., as I’m at my most present and relaxed during that window.

After a wonderful evening, I take time to rest privately so I can be fully recharged the next morning. This balance keeps the experience comfortable, intimate, and restful for us both. I’ll take eight hours to sleep in my own room, then come back to you for snuggles in the morning.

Yes! I adore longer experiences and travel dates where we can truly unwind. These bookings require advance planning and travel arrangements, but I handle the logistics personally to make everything effortless for you.

If you need to cancel, please let me know as soon as possible. With proper notice, your deposit can be applied to a future date within 30 days. After that timeframe, or for last-minute cancellations, a new deposit will be required.

Please provide at least 48 hours’ notice for local dates and one week’s notice for travel bookings. The more advance notice you provide, the more flexible I can be with rescheduling.

Yes — because travel arrangements require more time and preparation, cancellations within one week of the date incur the full fee. I truly appreciate your understanding and communication if something arises.

You can view genuine client experiences on my verified Private Delights profile. I have also posted a few highlights, which include some private words of adoration, on my Testimonials page.