Booking, etiquette, deposits, cancellations, extensions, references, and everything you wanted to know...

In this section you can find frequently asked questions and important things to know before we spend our time together.

My personal and professional pursuits keep my schedule full, so I require advance notice in order to see clients. For new clients, my screening process requires time to complete, and I cannot see anyone who has not been fully screened. It is in your best interests to let me know well in advance when you would like to see me.

A 25% deposit is required to reserve our time together. As with other businesses, the deposit for our time together is non-refundable. If you need to reschedule our booking, please contact me more than 48 hours prior to our scheduled date (see cancellation policy for more details). Should I hear from you during this time frame, our deposit can be applied to a new appointment within 30 days of the original booking. After that period, a new deposit will be required to schedule time together.

In the unlikely event that I am unable to make our scheduled appointment, I will happily work with you to reschedule our time together. If you prefer a refund of your deposit, please refer to the following notes as they will be strictly adhered to, and all suitors who go through my screening process agree that they have done so:

  • CashApp payments may be refunded in full
  • As gift card balances are transferred upon receipt, they are unable to be refunded
  • Cryptocurrency deposits are nonrefundable due to the volatility and nature of crypto itself. (The amount you send changes value almost immediately.)
  • I am working on a discreet cash option for those of who to whom technology is no friend and will post lots of updates once everything is settled!

Full prepayments are non-refundable. This is one of the reasons that I greatly prefer cash over any other payment method, so please keep that in mind when choosing a deposit method, especially if you are considering pre-payment. 

I travel within a 45 minute radius of Edgewater, New Jersey to meet at upscale hotel locations. When looking at this, please take into consideration what time of day our appointment is going to commence. 30 minutes during the early afternoon might not be 30 minutes during rush hour. Just like Cinderella, I come with a time limit and excluding overnights, my dates come to a conclusion by 10pm.

I do not keep a stationary incall location. I make outcalls to hotels within 45 minutes of Edgewater, New Jersey. If an incall is desired, there will be a $300 room fee and 25% appointment deposit required. Incalls are currently only available for New Jersey.

I’m very picky when it comes to overnight propositions because I’m an incredibly light sleeper, and maintaining my sleep schedule is very important to my overall wellness. It’s one of the reasons that I don’t accept early morning or late night bookings. If we do schedule an overnight together, the actual sleeping portion will take place in separate rooms to maintain both of our comfort levels, while allowing plenty of time for nighttime cuddles (and fresh morning breath before breakfast!)

I use the “available now” function on my ads to indicate that I am currently online and available to process screening information. Unfortunately, it doesn’t mean I’m dressed to the nines awaiting a suitor to sweep my schedule off its feet. I still require time to process your screening information, hear back from any references, and work you into my calendar.

I feel that references are an important part of how we keep each other safe in this wild, amazing world of ours. That being said, please make sure that you are requesting references in the most helpful way. If you would like me to provide a reference for a new provider you’re hoping to see, give me a head’s up so that I know I’ll be hearing from them. If you’re providing a reference as part of your screening, please include the provider’s name, website, and contact email. Simply saying “I saw Cindy from Tryst” will genuinely not help me.

I have a variety of outfits suitable for every occasion, and will be sure to dress for whatever we have planned! If you’d like me to wear something specific, you are welcome to gift that outfit in advance and I would be happy to oblige. Otherwise, I will be sure to wear something suitably delightful for our time together.

When I ask for a driver’s license, it is to ensure that the name I am given is legitimate, and that the person in the photo is the one I’ll be meeting (hence the matching selfie). The name is important for checking things like criminal records for violent crimes. If you have petty drug charges, I really don’t care, but battery and assault are HUGE red flags. Your ID doesn’t have any sensitive information like your SSN, otherwise you wouldn’t show it to bartenders or bouncers, right? Employment verification is a roundabout way of getting the same information: a correct name and matching photo so I know who I’m meeting.

Questions about how things will go once we finally meet? You’ll find those answers here.

I am always freshly showered for our time together and expect the same for you. When we first meet up, take a few moments to refresh yourself so that we’re both squeaky-clean. Hygiene extends its not-so-sticky fingers to your teeth, breath, and nails as well. Some women fantasize about their own Adonis, but personally I prefer cleanliness to godliness.

I know that meeting for the first time can be very exciting, but there are a few logistical things to touch on before we get there! Once we have an appointment booked, coordination will continue via email. If we are meeting for an outcall, I will need the room number and hotel confirmation prior to my departure– no one likes getting to a hotel only to find out no one’s there! If we are meeting for an incall, I will provide the room number to you via email once I have checked in and am securely in the room. Take a deep breath, because everything from here is smooth sailing!

There are two forms of currency I accept for the balance of our appointment fee: cash and crypto. If you would like to pay via crypto, please arrange this with me well in advance so we may work out the details. If you are opting for cash, leave an unsealed envelope with the remainder of my patronage in plain sight upon my arrival, preferably in the bathroom where I can wash up and put things away in private. If we have arranged for an incall, leave the envelope on the dresser before your shower, and I will have it handled before your return. When meeting first in public, pick a suitable form of presentation, such as greeting card, gift bag, or novel. Payment is agreed to be an appropriate consultation fee in my capacity as an experienced professional.

If at any point your actions make me feel unsafe or disrespected, I reserve the right to immediately end our time together and terminate any future relationship. This will be treated as a cancellation on your behalf and all remaining funds are to be remitted immediately. Explicit language in our emails and boundary-pushing, whether before we meet or during our time together, is unacceptable. If you do not include the information I request in our emails, then I will be unable to meet with you. If at any point you lie or “artfully omit” things from the information requested, I will be unable to meet with you. I will not abide with individuals who put me in any kind of danger. When we are in public, please be conscious of our surroundings before saying or asking anything that could put my safety or comfort in jeopardy (such as referencing my occupation around others).

Understandably, life can throw us unexpected situations. As my schedule is exceedingly limited, I am dedicated to enforcing my cancellation policy as it stands to safeguard the time I choose to make available to my friends. Local appointments cancelled or rescheduled within 48 hours of our meeting time will incur a 100% cancellation fee. Appointments requiring my travel must be canceled one week in advance or else incur the full cancellation fee, as the arrangements travel requires takes far more time from my schedule than local trysts do. This policy ensures that the time I set aside for my friends is used by those who value it properly. Any refusal to adhere to this policy will result in appropriate further action. This policy is equally enforced to any sort of payment issue that should arise when I arrive to our appointment.

Worried already that we’ll have too marvelous of a time together? It happens, and as long as my schedule allows, I will try to accommodate your request to extend. In-date extensions are $800 per hour charged in one hour increments. It is always preferred to have our schedule set in advance, as I will sometimes be unable to accommodate these requests.

I would be happy to act as a reference should you like to visit with another companion. Please notify me in advance so that I can be prepared once your new friend contacts me. Note that I can only vouch for the behavior of those I’ve seen within the past six months. After that time period, you will need someone you have visited with more recently to speak to your character.

I accept and appreciate those who take the time to leave reviews, as they can be very helpful in guiding others who are searching for a companion. I only ever want you to speak from the heart– writing about how I made you feel is much more valuable than going through a checklist of physical activities accomplished.