Looking to go above and beyond? Though gifts are never expected, small tokens of our time together are always cherished. If you’re seeking guidance on what I would prize the most, you’ve come to the right place!

The best starting place is my Wishtender. This is kept the most up to date with my needs, allows simple financial contributions, and features discreet credit card billing with absolutely no tie to my name. Enticing, no?


In my time as Josi, I have been able to accumulate a vast collection of lingerie. If there is something terribly specific you would like to see me in, please email me to check if I already have it– if not, sizing will be provided. New releases that catch my eye will be posted on my Twitter and Wishtender, most likely from Studio Pia or Bordelle, my current favorites. (I’ll never say no to gift cards from these lovely design houses!)

I’ve recently gotten into candles, so help feed my obsession! These are a few that I am looking to try, but general scents I enjoy are light and sweet. Steer clear of anything musky, earthy, or “clean” (to me, “clean” scents tend to smell like detergent!) and say yes to flowers, fruits, and anything used in baking! Please, no incense. 

Mala: (Milk & Sugar – warm and delicious, like sugar cookies!)
Bonita Fierce: (Azúcar or Piña Paleta – those same sweet notes with a bit of fruit)
Diptyque: (Coing – true story, last time I was given this candle, I thought the name was ICONIC because of how the letters are laid out)
Otherland: (Daybed or Boudoir Rouge – both of the names are terribly decadent, don’t you think?)
Blk Sunflower: (The Blacker The Berry, Love Wins, Basic B*tch, or Tall Dark & Handsome! This is a company I adore, and I’m still waiting for the day where my date shows up with one!)

This is not an exhaustive list, just a few suggestions of scents I know I love! I would also love to receive anything from small businesses, particularly those that are locally- or female-owned.

So simple. So direct. So terribly useful!

Grubhub: for when I’m feeling particularly insatiable
Etsy: to support my favorite creators and decorate my home
United: for my next jaunt away from home
Sephora: for my glam days
Spa Finder: for a lady on the go who is in constant need of a back rub
AirBnB: to escape to a cabin in the woods for a weekend

Thank you for wanting to get to know my tastes. It will make our time together that much more delicious!

Water: still, not sparkling. Absolutely no preference on brand.
Wine: still or sparkling Moscato
Liquor: I enjoy cocktails made with vodka, rum, and various liqueurs. I do not drink whiskey, bourbon, scotch, brandy. I only drink tequila once we’ve really gotten to know each other. 😉 You may catch me ordering an amaretto sour, madras, or sex on the beach.
Sweets: big fan of chocolate! Nothing with toffee, caramel, or other overly sticky add-ons, as I have sensitive teeth.
Snacks: I tell everyone, cheese is its own food group! I simply melt over a cheese plate. Ultimate snacking favorites include melted brie (especially with any sort of fruit spread!), burrata, and seedless grapes.

Photoshoot Sponsorship: Photo sponsorships are so much fun! Each photo sponsorship comes with a briefing on the direction of the shoot depending on the package chosen; if I’ll be doing some cozy fireside shots, stepping out to a nearby restaurant, or getting some outdoor looks. I’ll provide a preview of my outfit selections so you can pick your favorites, and if you have anything you can’t live without, I’ll be sure to prioritize shooting in it first! And once the images come back, I’ll send you the lot before the rest of the world gets to see. This is the perfect way to be hands-on with my next set of photos so they’re customized to your preferences.

My photography wishlist includes:

    • Inamorata Photography: We have shot together a few times, and I’m already outlining my next shoot with her when I visit LA! She has an incredible creative eye and makes me feel so comfortable while we’re shooting.
    • Point of Vue: Highly recommended by my friends, POV is local to me in NYC! I am so eager to shoot both photos and my first ever video this spring and can’t wait to show you the results.