Looking to go above and beyond? Though gifts are never expected, small tokens of our time together are always cherished. If you’re seeking guidance on what I would prize the most, you’ve come to the right place!


In my time as Josi, I have been able to accumulate a vast collection of lingerie. If there is something terribly specific you would like to see me in, please email me to check if I already have it– if not, sizing will be provided. New releases that catch my eye will be posted on my Twitter, most likely from Studio Pia or Bordelle, my current favorites.

I’ve recently gotten into candles, so help feed my obsession! These are a few that I am looking to try, but general scents I enjoy are light and sweet. Steer clear of anything musky or earthy, and say yes to flowers, fruits, and anything used in baking! Please, no incense. 

Mala: (1) (2) (3) (4)
Bonita Fierce: (1) (2) (3) (4)
Diptyque: (1) (2) (3) (4)
Otherland: (1) (2) (3) (4)
Anecdote Candles: (1) (2) (3) (4)
Blk Sunflower: (1) (2) (3) (4)

This is not an exhaustive list, just a few suggestions! I would also love to receive anything from small businesses, particularly those that are locally- or female-owned.

So simple. So direct. So terribly useful!

Grubhub: for when I’m feeling particularly insatiable
Etsy: to support my favorite creators and decorate my home
Delta, United, or American Airlines: for my next jaunt away from home
Sephora: for my glam days
Sojo Spa: so I may relax and unwind with their bath circuit and a massage
Spa Finder: more of the above
AirBnB: to find a cabin in the woods
Barnes & Noble: because there are some books I simply must have in hardcover

Thank you for wanting to get to know my tastes. It will make our time together that much more delicious!

Water: still, not sparkling. Absolutely no preference on brand.
Wine: still or sparkling Moscato
Liquor: I enjoy cocktails made with vodka, rum, and various liqueurs. I do not drink whiskey, bourbon, scotch, brandy. I only drink tequila once we’ve really gotten to know each other. 😉 You may catch me ordering an amaretto sour, madras, or sex on the beach.
Sweets: big fan of chocolate! Nothing with toffee, caramel, or other overly sticky add-ons, as I have sensitive teeth.
Snacks: I tell everyone, cheese is its own food group! I simply melt over a cheese plate, especially if it involves brie.

A few favorites that don’t fit neatly into any category!

  • Bath Accessories
    • Bubble bath (especially milky bath)
    • Bath salts
    • Bath bombs
  • Any aesthetically pleasing journals

Photoshoot Sponsorship: Photo sponsorships are so much fun! Each photo sponsorship comes with a briefing on the direction of the shoot depending on the package chosen; if I’ll be doing some cozy fireside shots, stepping out to a nearby restaurant, or getting some outdoor looks. I’ll provide a preview of my outfit selections so you can pick your favorites, and if you have anything you can’t live without, I’ll be sure to prioritize shooting in it first! And once the images come back, I’ll send you the lot before the rest of the world gets to see. This is the perfect way to be hands-on with my next set of photos so they’re customized to your preferences.

My photography wishlist includes:

    • Inamorata Photography: We have shot together a few times, and I’m already outlining my next shoot with her when I visit LA.
    • Point of Vue: Highly recommended by my friends, this duo shoots both photos and video! Located in NYC, I can’t wait to see what we can create together.