Booking, etiquette, deposits, cancellations, extensions, references, and everything you wanted to know...

My personal and professional pursuits keep my schedule full, so I require advance notice in order to see clients. For new clients, my screening process requires time to complete, and I cannot see anyone who has not been fully screened. It is in your best interests to let me know well in advance when you would like to see me. If we’ve previously met, feel free to reach out to see if I’m available for a last-minute rendezvous.

A deposit is required to reserve our time together. As with other businesses, deposits are non-refundable. If you need to reschedule your booking, please contact me more than 48 hours prior to our scheduled date (see cancellation policy for more details). Should I hear from you during this time frame, our deposit can be applied to a new appointment within 30 days of the original booking. After that period, a new deposit will be required to schedule time together.

Full prepayments are non-refundable. This is one of the reasons that I greatly prefer cash over any other payment method, so please keep that in mind when choosing a deposit method, especially if you are considering pre-payment. 

I travel within northern New Jersey and Manhattan to meet at upscale hotel locations. Just like Cinderella, I come with a time limit and excluding overnights and evening theater dates, my time with suitors comes to a conclusion by 10pm.

Looking to meet me on tour? Ask about my outcall availability, as it varies by tour city.
Need help choosing a hotel? Don’t stress too much about the “upscale” part of the description! You’re looking for something clean, in a safe area, ideally with parking available. I spend most of my time in New Jersey, and almost none of it in the cities like Jersey City and Hoboken, so I’m not looking for a 5-star hotel. We have plenty of lovely options that are 3-3.5 stars, so reach out if you need help choosing.

I do not visit private residences.

I do not keep a stationary incall location. If an incall is requested, there will be a $300 room fee required to secure the location.

Looking to meet me on tour? Inquire about the incall fee, as it will often be waived while traveling.

I’m very picky when it comes to overnight propositions because I’m an incredibly light sleeper, and maintaining my sleep schedule is very important to my overall wellness. It’s one of the reasons that I don’t accept early morning or late night bookings. If we do schedule an overnight together, the actual sleeping portion will take place in separate rooms to maintain both of our comfort levels, while allowing plenty of time for nighttime cuddles (and fresh morning breath before breakfast!)

I have a variety of outfits suitable for every occasion, and will be sure to dress for whatever we have planned! If you’d like me to wear something specific, you are welcome to gift that outfit in advance and I would be happy to oblige. Otherwise, I will be sure to wear something suitably delightful for our time together.

When I ask for a driver’s license, it is to ensure that the name I am given is legitimate, and that the person in the photo is the one I’ll be meeting (hence the matching selfie). The name is important for checking things like criminal records for violent crimes. If you have petty drug charges, I really don’t care, but battery and assault are HUGE red flags. Your ID doesn’t have any sensitive information like your SSN, otherwise you wouldn’t show it to bartenders or bouncers, right? Employment verification is a roundabout way of getting the same information: a correct name and matching photo so I know who I’m meeting.

I am always freshly showered for our time together and expect the same for you. When we first meet up, take a few moments to refresh yourself so that we’re both squeaky-clean. Hygiene extends its not-so-sticky fingers to your teeth, breath, and nails as well. Some women fantasize about their own Adonis, but personally I prefer cleanliness to godliness.

I know that meeting for the first time can be very exciting, but there are a few logistical things to touch on before we get there! Once we have an appointment booked, coordination will continue via email. If we are meeting for an outcall, I will need the room number and hotel confirmation prior to my departure– no one likes getting to a hotel only to find out no one’s there! If we are meeting for an incall, I will provide the room number to you via email once I have checked in and am securely in the room. Take a deep breath, because everything from here is smooth sailing!

There are two forms of currency I accept for the balance of our appointment fee: cash and crypto. If you would like to pay via crypto, please arrange this with me well in advance so we may work out the details. If you are opting for cash, leave an unsealed envelope with the remainder of my patronage in plain sight upon my arrival, preferably in the bathroom where I can wash up and put things away in private. If we have arranged for an incall, leave the envelope on the dresser before your shower, and I will have it handled before your return. When meeting first in public, pick a suitable form of presentation, such as greeting card, gift bag, or novel. Payment is agreed to be an appropriate consultation fee in my capacity as an experienced professional.

If at any point your actions make me feel unsafe or disrespected, I reserve the right to immediately end our time together and terminate any future relationship. This will be treated as a cancellation on your behalf and all remaining funds are to be remitted immediately. Explicit language in our emails and boundary-pushing, whether before we meet or during our time together, is unacceptable. If you do not include the information I request in our emails, then I will be unable to meet with you. If at any point you lie or “artfully omit” things from the information requested, I will be unable to meet with you. I will not abide with individuals who put me in any kind of danger. When we are in public, please be conscious of our surroundings before saying or asking anything that could put my safety or comfort in jeopardy (such as referencing my occupation around others).

Understandably, life can throw us unexpected situations. As my schedule is exceedingly limited, I am dedicated to enforcing my cancellation policy as it stands to safeguard the time I choose to make available to my friends. Local appointments cancelled or rescheduled within 48 hours of our meeting time will incur a 100% cancellation fee. Appointments requiring my travel must be canceled one week in advance or else incur the full cancellation fee, as the arrangements travel requires takes far more time from my schedule than local trysts do. This policy ensures that the time I set aside for my friends is used by those who value it properly. Any refusal to adhere to this policy will result in appropriate further action. This policy is equally enforced to any sort of payment issue that should arise when I arrive to our appointment.

I adore hearing about your enjoyment of our time together! Let’s keep it between the two of us and not the whole wide web. I do not accept reviews and thank my suitors for keeping our private time private.