Travel

local adventures

I’m a native of northern New Jersey, and what can I say? I enjoy keeping things close to home. My travel radius for ‘local’ dates includes northern New Jersey and Manhattan, though there will be times I can be tempted to the outer boroughs, central and southern New Jersey, and Philadelphia. My main rule is much like Cinderella’s: I end up in my own bed at the end of the evening, so unfortunately, no all-night carousing for this princess.

Looking to lure me to a nearby locale that is just out of my travel radius? I’ll be happy to drive or train to nearby cities if your proposed date meets my travel minimum. Submit a booking request with all relevant details and my assistant will be happy to discuss our options.

sponsor a tour / fly me to you

Though I live just across the river from the one of the greatest cities in the country, I crave discovering new places, and that could mean your neck of the woods! If you don’t have any upcoming plans to come to New York or New Jersey, then invite me into your world and I’ll arrive with an excited grin on my face and my signature teal suitcase rolling behind me.

There are a few ways you could find me in your city. I tour regularly and keep those cities and dates current on Tryst and BlueSky. These are the places I know and love going back to with familiar faces who always make me smile.

Is your city not on my tour roster? You can lure me to visit with my sponsor a tour option. This means we schedule a minimum of four hours together, plus $500 for my travel costs. This is a great option if you’re looking to schedule some time together but don’t need to adhere to a strict set of dates.

Looking to have me where you are, exactly when you want me there? We can schedule a fly me to you meeting where you are the only thing on my mind. You pay for all of my travel expenses (flight, hotel, uber, etc.) and my schedule is just the way you want it: yours.

Below are a few frequently asked questions about booking a travel date with me. Make sure to review my main FAQ page as well!

Is there a minimum booking length for a FMTY booking? Nope! I love bopping around the country. FMTY bookings under 3 hours have an additional travel fee to compensate for the time I spend getting to you.

Can you help me estimate your travel costs? Sure! Generally speaking, allow $50 per leg of airport Ubering. Hotels vary, and what I choose will depend on how much time we’ll be spending in the room together. Your standard Hilton should land between $150-300/night, going up to $400-600 for certain cities. To calculate flights, look at United and Delta flights originating from EWR. Travel fees for short bookings will depend on how long I’ll be traveling to see you.

Are there cities you travel to regularly? This varies a lot! I’m in Nashville a few times per year. Right now I’m spending a lot of time visiting new places, and am planning to return to my favorites in 2025. Other regular spots include Houston, Boston, Detroit, Philadelphia / King of Prussia, and Tysons Corner / DC.

Should I choose a sponsored tour or FMTY? The choice, my dear, is entirely yours. Feel free to shoot me a message and we’ll hash out the options together.

extended adventures

By nature, I am a rather solitary creature, so I need some recharge time when I am with someone for an extended period of time. If we’re spending a day or more together, expect me to take some time to refresh myself, tend to my personal business, and generally get my groove back on. For those of you who understand more about my sleep troubles, you’ll understand I may also take this time to pop in a nap so I can stay invigorated for our time together! And as much as I adore snuggles, all good things must come to an end; as mentioned in my FAQ, overnight bookings do require separate sleeping accommodations to get a solid night of shut eye. After 8 hours of sleep, I will scurry over to your room and slide right back into bed for another round of cuddles!